Betty Frosteen Whitmer (née Van Hoosier), a cherished resident of Upland, California, passed away peacefully on May 11, 2025. Born on February 9, 1928, in Cannelton, Indiana, Betty’s life was a journey filled with love, family, and devotion.
Early Life and Family Roots
Betty was raised in Evansville, Indiana, after her family relocated from Cannelton. It was in Evansville where she met Robert R. Whitmer, her husband of 56 years. Together, they started a family, welcoming their daughter, Sherri Lynn. The Whitmers moved to California when Sherri was just one year old, settling in Upland. They later expanded their family with the birth of their son, Rick Ray.
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Family and Relationships
Throughout her life, Betty was a loving wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. Though she was preceded in death by her husband Robert R. Whitmer and daughter Sherri Lynn Ruiz-Vela of Alta Loma, her memory lives on through her surviving family members.
Betty’s family includes her son Rick Whitmer and his wife Marianne of Alta Loma, and son-in-law Albert Ruiz-Vela. She was also a proud grandmother to Jennifer Davis of Rancho Cucamonga, Katelynn Whitmer (married to Bryan Meisner) of Lake Havasu City, Arizona, Renee Macias (married to Tony) of Rancho Cucamonga, and Danielle and Rebecca Ruiz-Vela of Costa Mesa. Her great-grandchildren—Sydney and Sarah Davis, Rylee Hernandez, Bryan and Kimber Lynn Meisner, Madeline and Joshua Macias—continue her legacy. Additionally, Betty is remembered by her nephew Mark Bell and his wife Dawn of Upland.
Legacy of Love and Community
Betty’s life reflected a deep commitment to family values and community. She is remembered fondly by relatives, friends, and neighbors for her warmth, kindness, and unwavering faith.
Memorial Services
Family and friends are invited to honor Betty Whitmer’s life:
- Viewing: June 3, 4:00 PM to 8:00 PM at Todd Memorial Chapel, Pomona
- Funeral Service: June 4, 10:00 AM at Todd Memorial Chapel, Pomona
- Burial: Following the service at Bellevue Cemetery, Ontario
- Celebration of Life: At the home of Rick and Marianne Whitmer after the burial
Frequently Asked Questions
Who was Betty Frosteen Whitmer?
Betty was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother who lived in Upland, California. She was born in Indiana and spent much of her life nurturing her family.
When and where was Betty born?
Betty was born on February 9, 1928, in Cannelton, Indiana.
What was Betty’s family background?
She was married to Robert R. Whitmer for 56 years and had two children, Sherri Lynn and Rick Ray. She also had several grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
When did Betty pass away?
Betty passed away on May 11, 2025.
Where will the funeral services be held?
Services will be at Todd Memorial Chapel in Pomona, with burial at Bellevue Cemetery in Ontario.
Is there a celebration of life planned?
Yes, the family will hold a celebration of life at the home of Rick and Marianne Whitmer after the burial.
Who survives Betty?
Betty is survived by her son Rick and wife Marianne, son-in-law Albert Ruiz-Vela, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and nephew Mark Bell.
How can people honor Betty’s memory?
Attending the memorial services and celebrating her life with the family are meaningful ways to honor her legacy.
Conclusion
Betty Frosteen Whitmer’s life was marked by love, dedication, and faith. Her journey from Indiana to California, her role as a matriarch, and the memories she created with her family reflect a rich legacy that will be treasured for generations. As family and friends gather to celebrate her life, her spirit lives on in the hearts of all who knew her.